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How do you cope with life?

Can we start a thread on coping skills for dealing with the sensory overload that goes hand in hand with chronic illness? We are constantly in a state of overwhelm in a room all by ourselves, and when you add in daily life and all of the outside stimulation… life just sometimes gets to be too much. I’m just curious to see what other warriors do to survive and keep their sanity in tact.

A little backstory: I’ve basically been on a journey to find myself and figure out my place in the world since well my whole life. But due to a car accident in 2006 that resulted in a TBI, I’ve been living with un-acknowledged amnesia and I forgot my self. I recognized all my loved ones, and I remembered how to do basic life skills… But I forgot the essence of me, including all my childhood memories. However, the subconscious works in amazing ways and my amnesia was recently cured. Granted it was cured bit by bit over the last almost 16 years via signs from the universe, and triggered memories. The most recent traumatic experience I endured was a narcissisticly abusive relationship, that I thankfully escaped, but I’m pretty damaged from it. On this healing journey I’ve been on since April, I’ve realized a number of things about my inner workings. I have A LOT of sensory processing issues that I’m trying to figure out how to live life with. I’ve discovered I’m dyslexic, and suffer with dysphasia. I also have figured out the reason I hold on to all my traumas and can’t forget them, is because I have Hyperthymesia, an autobiographical memory, emotions and all. I was diagnosed with ADD in elementary school, ADHD in high school, but truth be told I’m pretty sure I have Asperger’s. Also a little Williams-Buren because I want everything to be happy and loving in my life, I can’t thrive in chaos.

So I will kick off the thread by sharing my coping skills:
Art & Journaling
Loose fitting clothing
Calming music/ocean sounds
Teaching myself ukulele
Keeping hydrated
Munching on a healthy snack
Researching medical reasons for my oddities
Medical cannabis
Shaving my head
My electric blanket
Watching documentaries on Netflix
Learning to set and honor my own personal boundaries.

Please share yours tricks and tactics for navagating life, feel free to share links for products you can’t imagine getting through life without too! #ChronicIllness #InvisibleIllness #HEDS #POTS #NMH #Fibromyalgia #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #neurodivergent #MentalHealth #sibo #TraumaticBrainInjury #learningtocope

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what doesn’t kill me just might drive me insane...

In November I was officially diagnosed with severe #POTS , #NMH, and #HEDS, all on the same day. Then l last week I was informed that I have #sibo as well. And who the heck knows what the new neurologist I’m seeing on Tuesday is going to tell me I have... my suspicions are that #CFS is also in the mix as well. I’m trying not to let it all get me down, but seriously when is enough going to be enough? What did I do to deserve this life? I mean I know it could be worse because it’s not anything terminal... but also how much can one person be expected to take?! I’m so frustrated that all I can do is cry any more. All of this crap has caused my #Depression and #Anxiety to spiral out of control, and I suspect it’s taking it’s toll on my relationship, like I’m sure it did to my last one... at least this time I know what’s causing my issues. I just want my somewhat simple and kind of normal daily existence back.

As I type this from a bed in the ER........

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ISO: suggestions on working from home w/disabilities

I suffered through a tilt table test last week, which confirmed my #POTS diagnosis, as well as added a #NMH diagnosis. The next day I received an email from my Geneticist confirming my official diagnosis of #HypermobileEDS. All of which I suspected, just had to get the official answers. My issues tend to flair exponentially in the summer and the winter... anyone have any advice on how to go about establishing a #workfromhome job? Because as it gets colder and colder it just keeps getting harder and harder for me to get out of bed in the morning. And in the summer the heat just turns me into a puddle, melted on the ground.

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