Black & Blue when I battle you
Constantly at a inner struggle with myself. I always have been the go to person, the one that holds everyone else up, strong independent.
I know asking for help is okay. For me it is easier said than done . It definitely is not on my strong suite let alone add in my patience and it’s a whole mess.
Feel like I come out of a batting ring daily from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Trying to figure out we’re I can make those baby steps on letting people help me. End up just doing it myself. Paying for it later . Don’t want to be a burden.
This especially goes for my significant other he is the hardest one I have issues asking for help from. He has seen me at my “regular” performing state and now I just feel like I’m in the way more than anything.
He never outwardly expresses it or really does anything to make me feel that way. It’s just my brain. The one thing I can appreciate is that he is the one person and even I catch him doing it sometimes. He treats me like me. He doesn’t walk on egg shells he doesn’t coddle me (even though I sometimes wish he did more) but he makes me feel strong even when I feel week. He knows when to push me and when it’s a “hey why don’t you go to your zen garden and relax” type of day.
Just emotionally feeling broken and bruised physically my body is screaming silently yet it’s so loud. I find myself screaming alot in my head. Not sure if that’s a good thing.
I think why me ?! Then again I think why not me?! The universe wouldn’t give me something I couldn’t handle. This is just another mountain to overcome. Yet there is no overcoming it . There is no getting better or a magic pill to cure me.
I just had a birthday over the weekend. By far just made me internally panic more. How will I be in 2 5 10 years from now. Will the people I have in my life still be there or will they have floated down the river of life. Will he still love me . Why if I become to much. I don’t want to take away others peoples way of living . Just alot of “ahhhhhhhhhh”
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